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Posted on Oct 16th, 2009 by quietlaughter : . quietlaughter
Today I was told that someone I have known for a long time passed away. He was a long time member in the center where I work, and I often spoke with him, joked around with him and his wife. I knew he was in palliative care only recently and I did not have a chance to say goodbye. I was asked to create the memorial card for his service on Tuesday. I wanted to share the card that he gave to his wife this year. It has touched me deeply - what he wrote. I will always think of Ron as an example of someone who knew life could be hard sometimes, but what truly matters is finding and always seeing the beauty in the people that he loved most.

Until we meet again, Ron.

xo
la
~

For My Beautiful Wife



Dear Joan,

The first time I saw you,

      I somehow knew

you’d be important in my life.

In my eyes, you were beautiful

in so many ways,

    there was no doubt

     that I wanted to spend forever

          with you.

 

And when we got married,

things were every bit as good

as I’d hoped.

 

I didn’t want anything to change.

But…life is full of changes,

and not every day can be paradise.

 

Together we’ve faced reality,

the day-to-day “bumps in the road”

that test every couple’s patience.

I’ve seen you in many challenging situations,

and the miracle is…
you’re even more beautiful

  than I thought possible.

 

Not only are you the woman of my dreams,

But you’re also my best friend,

and as time passes,

I fall more deeply in love with you.

 

Love & Best Wishes

Very Truly Yours

Love Ron

XOXOXO

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ange : dawn song
11 minutes later
ange said

I am sorry for your loss of your friend Leigh Anne.

Thank you for sharing these beautiful words from Ron's beautiful heart..
How true and real..profound and touching..It is clear he loved his wife and what a wonderful comfort and reminder for her each time she hears his words..
The closeness..devotion and love is etched in each line..
So beautiful..

Prayers..love..light and blessings to Ron..his wife and loved ones..

Peace..
Love
Ange..

Laurie : Energy Worker
44 minutes later
Laurie said

Leigh-Anne, thank you for sharing Ron's heart-felt sentiment for his wife.  in doing so, you have honored them both.

Nicole : wakingdreamer
about 13 hours later
Nicole said

strangely enough, I was just discussing with Robert an experience three years ago when a friend died without my having a chance to say goodbye. It is a difficult thing. Much love and light to you and all those whose lives have been warmed by Ron's. xo

Jenny : Life Weaver
8 days later
Jenny said

Thankyou for sharing this letter with us Leigh-Anne and please thank Ron's wife too. She has been very well loved. Isnt that all that any of us could wish for? To be loved deeply for the person that we are throughout our lives.

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